Researchers at the University of Washington recently conducted a survey of men between the ages of 21 and 30: the reasons for not using condoms in sexual activity. More than 80% of men admit to using at least one reason to convince the other half not to use condoms, and even some men use these excuses to avoid condoms after they are 14 years old. We know that asking the other person to use condoms is sometimes a very embarrassing situation, and it is difficult to ask for the other party even in a moody situation. But if you are not ready to take on the facts of pregnancy, or even the consequences of getting a sexually transmitted disease, then you still want to ask the other person to wear a condom! Ideally, you have to confirm the protective measures before the start of the foreplay or even the foreplay. For example, ask him if he has a condom. If you don’t have it, please ask him to prepare first; if you can find the place where the condom is placed in the motel and move it to the obvious place (this is also a hint to the man). Clinical psychologists say: If you clearly indicate your position and needs, most of the time the other party will respect your decision. But if you really encounter one of the five excuses, here are the suggested solutions. One of the excuses: Don’t worry, I am very clean. This is the excuse that most men use, up to 74%. They always thought that as long as they said that they are very clean, there is no problem, but it is not clean and does not mean that you will not be pregnant! Moreover, there are usually no obvious symptoms in the early stage of sexually transmitted diseases, and some even have to undergo fluid-related tests to be discovered. Unless there is a doctor’s report to prove it, please don’t believe this excuse. If the other party uses this reason, you can say to him: Yes, but there is still something to worry about if you are pregnant. Then wear the condom for him as quickly as possible, and he can no longer argue with you. Excuse 2: You are too sexy, I can’t stand it. There are also many men (73%) who think that they can convince each other with sweet words, which is actually very useful. To resist the temptation of sweet talk, in addition to your heart must know the possible consequences of pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases, put some insurance covers in places you can easily get, such as bedside tables, you or his bags…etc. Take out the condom in the shortest time, so that he has no excuse to say that it is a waste of time! Excuse 3: If you don’t wear it, it will make us more comfortable! This is the oldest reason, and 50% of men said they have used it. But according to the latest survey, most men and women think wearing a condom is more comfortable! In addition to alleviating psychological concerns about sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy (we have mentioned psychological stress in six small things that make women less interesting) Will make women feel no sense.) Now the condom has a variety of different bells and whistles, spiral, ultra-thin, granules, unique fragrance, etc., can bring different stimulation and pleasure to the body, just like a small Like sex toys, don’t be too pitiful! Excuse 4: Can I not wear it? Forty percent of men have expressed their willingness to wear so directly to the other party, and many women who usually encounter this situation agree. (Yes, it’s that simple) This method of throwing the problem back to the other party is straightforward and very confusing, so you can also tell him directly at this time: No, you can’t do it without wearing a set. Of course, the tone can be very direct or very spoiled but not to be rejected. It depends on you who is soft and hard! Excuse 5: What, don’t you believe me? When I hear this excuse, there are usually girls who will be there: What is going on now? The feeling, but according to the survey, 34% of men have used it… Dear, please don’t follow him at this time? It is a direct indication that asking him to wear a suit and not to believe that it is a two-handed thing, and strengthen your position! In addition to the above five reasons, of course, there will be other strange excuses. No matter which excuse you encounter, please remember to strengthen your own position. Worried that the atmosphere of destruction is definitely not the reason for your compromise. Not breaking up with you! A man who really deserves to be physically and mentally hugged should not be someone who doesn’t know how to protect you. Be sure to stand firm on your own position, worrying that the atmosphere of destruction is definitely not a reason for your compromise, and that the other party is not breaking up with you! A man who really deserves to be physically and mentally hugged should not be someone who doesn’t know how to protect you. Be sure to stand firm on your own position, worrying that the atmosphere of destruction is definitely not a reason for your compromise, and that the other party is not breaking up with you! A man who really deserves to be physically and mentally hugged should not be someone who doesn’t know how to protect you.